A Brother For Roma US to Ethiopia to Japan: Where does the money go

Time line

9/05/11 moved to Japan
3/13/10 Home Forever
3/9/10 Embassy
3/3/19 Met E for the first time
1/28/10 Passed court
1/1/10 Court Date postoned
10/17/09 still waiting for a court date. Is there an end in sight?
6-19-09 Received paperwork for referral and returned it
6-17-09 Received the call for a referral
5/14 still waiting will it ever happen???????
1/20/09 officially waiting
1/17/09 recieved I171H
12/17/08 officially accepted to the Ethiopian program
12/6/08 recieved home study copies in mail
11/19/08 Home study in review
10/13/08 Finished all I need to do for the home study
9/30/08 Started home visits
9/5/08 recieved first homestudy packet
8/25/08 applied to Wasatch and WACAP
7/8 - 8/25/08 Studied Agencies
7/8/08 Decided to adopt