Find a mentor—someone who is a strong Christian and who will be honest and loving with you. If you feel that counseling is needed, then take the first step to set up an appointment. During this process, ask God to direct your decisions and discernment.
Verses to Memorize
Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. Proverbs 15:22
In abundance of counselors there is victory. Proverbs 11:14
The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man is he who listens to counsel. Proverbs 12:15
This is an easy one I already have this couple in place and can't wait to get back to Utah to glean more from them!